Monthly Archives: June 2016

Confronting my husband about the affair

Fog.  Clouds.  That’s all I could see around me. It’s 4 days since D-Day.  It’s Thursday.  He just told me the night before that he was, “done.”  That it had been over for years.  He felt no connection with me. … Continue reading

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I need a break

I need a break. I have this incredible urge to get those first weeks out, to get them out now. I already feel a little bit better about DD.  It’s writing and releasing.  Writing and releasing… I took a break … Continue reading

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The day I got aboard the Crazy Train

It’s Wednesday now.  Only 3 days past DD.  It already feels like a lifetime at this point. Just so you know, Crazy Train has come for me now, and there’s really no holding back on the language.  If it offends, … Continue reading

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The days after DDay

DD was on a Sunday night going into Monday morning.  I went to work that Monday morning, and sat at my desk, dazed.  I had not slept.  I’m way to old to be pulling an all nighter. I can’t believe … Continue reading

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Discovery Day 9-20-2015

For me, I feel like if I look over my shoulder, I see the past 9 months through a thick fog.  You may wonder why I would want to go back.  I feel like I need to.  I feel like … Continue reading

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Why am I doing this?

Why am I doing this?  To be honest, I’m not sure….Or am I?I’m struggling, and have been since DDay.  {Discovery Day}   For me, DD was 9 months and 2 days ago.  276 days.    (I used timeanddate.com for that…lol… … Continue reading

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