Monthly Archives: August 2016

Discovery Day #2.

February 23, 2016 (The timeline and dates are important to me… I’m not sure why.  Maybe I’ll ask the therapist why I’m obsessed with the timeline, because I really don’t know) Tuesday evening. I’m driving home with our oldest, I’ve … Continue reading

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After he came back home…and I contact the Other Woman….And DDay #2 is coming….

January 2016He’s mostly distant.  I would ask him, “Did you come home too soon?”  “Yes” Do you want to go back to your nephews?   “No” It’s a cold January here.  Not only the weather, but he is too. “Where … Continue reading

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We went south – and I got him back in the house

I told the kids to pack, we were going to go to Florida.  That’s exactly what we did. The kids were surprised, and yet seemed excited.  It was a long, long drive.  16 hours to get to where I wanted … Continue reading

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I’m so lost

He left Sunday, Dec. 20th. I picked myself up out of the driveway, and told the kids to get ready to go out, we are going for lunch. I stayed out with them as long as I could, to come … Continue reading

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The hardest thing I’ve ever had to face… December

I think I’ve been avoiding my blog because I know December is the next part to the story. December will never be the same for me again.  I read other blogs, and I know I will have years and years … Continue reading

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