Monthly Archives: January 2018

Just me.

I have time off work. I feel pressured to get stuff done, but my body and mind just say “Stop.  It’s OK. Relax.” I’m actually starting to sleep.  Nine days now that I have slept well.  That’s something new.  I … Continue reading

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2:30am musings of the other woman.

Toni. Aka: TrashWhore. (My name for her. She’s garbage. They met up next to some dumpsters at Taco Bell with my son in the car, and there’s a lovely picture of her floating around with her in a dumpster..trashwhore) She … Continue reading

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What part did she get?

I wrote that blog last night, got up, gathered my things and went to bed. This morning, it was still on my mind. I guess he could feel it, even though I’m doing my best to talk about the cat, … Continue reading

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I just can’t right now.

He’s sitting next to me playing his acoustic guitar. I used to feel comforted by it. Now I know I’m not the only one who has sat next to him, listening to him quietly play and sing. I used to … Continue reading

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Was she worth it?

I’m checking the mail yesterday.  It’s a nice distance and walk to the mailbox.   My walk takes me past a cattle barn, an old corn crib, abandoned farm equipment, another storage barn and a silo.  These buildings are on … Continue reading

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What was he doing those days after DDay?

I’m writing a post about how their affair ended.   In doing so, and as I look back on those days right after I found out the truth, some of the things he did have me shaking my head a … Continue reading

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