Monthly Archives: February 2018

Cognitive Dissonance

Interesting. So, I  began this blog and my twitter (Me on Twitter) on the same day.  This June will be two years. God, what a journey!  I’m still on it.  But I can’t say enough about the ‘friends’ I have … Continue reading

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Nope to Valentines Day.

Yeah, it’s a no from me. I’m not ready.  I’m alright with that.  I’m comfortable. VDay History: 1990-2015:  It was great.  We always gave each other something cute, a nice card, a nice evening. 2016: I wake up, he’s gone.  … Continue reading

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Day 2 of silent treatment

Inside of an argument that has led to a 2 day silent treatment. Just getting it out, because I’m going insane. He’s mean. It’s a power play. His way, his control. Why do I put up with it? I have … Continue reading

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