Monthly Archives: May 2018

BBQ, ghosts, flowers and muscle cars.

I love this time of year. The winter was long, it’s nice to feel the sun and warm days and the end of a long hibernation. Do you believe in ghosts? I live in a 170+ year old farm house. … Continue reading

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We have a disclosure talk that ends with screaming and things being thrown. Pt. 1

So it took me two months, but I finally sat down and told him I needed to talk. He groaned. I talked about my needing to know their start and their end with my counselor. All three I have tried … Continue reading

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