Monthly Archives: November 2018

Does the OW have power?

twitter conversations always get me thinking.. What is she to me? Who is she to me? Does being angry with her give her power over me? I’m not even sure what that means. I have struggled with my anger with … Continue reading

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But first, let me take a selfie.

The day I found out she existed it was 11 days into their start. It was his old iPhone that did it. He didn’t realize it was still linked. He denied there was someone else for hours the night before. … Continue reading

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I know what I would do.

I worked with Gail for years. We were good friends. I hung out at their house, I knew her husband. His name is John. They had a rough road trying to have children. She had several miscarriages, but they kept … Continue reading

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My path.

Growing up, my path wasn’t easy. There was no stability at all. 16 different schools before 8th grade should give somewhat of an idea. So though it was at times rocky and twisty, and sometimes it went through a dark … Continue reading

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Life is short

H and I are not speaking right now. Today will be day 5. I don’t care. I’m past playing these games. Friday, we were supposed to take our middle child to Ohio for a college visit. But a knock down … Continue reading

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