Pointless post this morning.
Big debate going on in a group I’m in this morning on the acronyms.
It is being said that we, the BS (betrayed spouse) need to stop calling the OW, OW.
We need to call her HW, they say.
This ignites a ridiculously huge keyboard battle.
Absolutely not, most say. The cheating spouse gets that title, they are the ones that wrecked the home.
No way, others say. She knew we were married, she knew we had kids, she spread her legs for him anyway. She wrecked our home.
I read the comments as they go on and on, then find myself bursting out laughing. Someone comes in with, “let’s drop the whole OW and HW and call them what they are, a THOT.”
That hoe over there.
Ok 👌. I’m good with THOT.
-Who did wreck the home?
-Who helped him?
-Who is the other woman in my marriage?
-Who is that hoe over there?
-Who is that other hoe over there?
My husband. He can be a thot, too. Why not.
-Who am I?
All acronyms so far are correct.
She DID know about me. She DID know about our kids, our family. Yes, he 100% lied to her.
He wrecked the home.
But she knew.
Maybe as betrayed spouses, there is a comfort in the acronyms used in the world of infidelity. It’s easier to tweet, it’s shorter to type and maybe we just like to call it as we individually see it.
My husband cheated. To me, he is The Cheater.
That’s not all he is, but that’s what he did, and that’s what I associate him as during the time he did it.
Toni is anything I can come up with. But she is also the other woman in this story and she did help wreck our home. To me, it will never matter that “she was not the one who married me and made promises to me.”
The bitch had her role in this and that’s that.
She is and always will be a THOT.
I also think long debates and arguments over silly things like this help.
Takes your mind off what actually went down.