Monthly Archives: November 2020

Abuse

Have I written that he accuses me of being abusive? He says I am an abusive spouse. He tells me I abuse him. I know I’ve tried to write it, but not sure if I hit publish. There’s a lot … Continue reading

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Lies.

I was outside feeding my feral cat, Oscar, this morning. He’s a cutie for sure. I’ve been working on him daily since he showed up in April. He remains as feral as he can be though. He has finally allowed … Continue reading

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Apology – my rant

I think I figured out how to repost… I’ve never done it ūüė¨ But Tearing at the Fabric wrote a post that got me thinking as she always does ūüíě I’ve thought about this a lot. I wouldn’t mind an … Continue reading

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Waves.

Waves. Roller coasters. Whatever it may be, I find myself just riding it. I had to step away from social media for the last couple of weeks. I’ve had to snooze people I consider very good friends and a handful … Continue reading

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I threw my rings.

I threw them. Like a child. Like a bratty child that wasn’t getting her way. I asked him not long after dday, “Why?” He answered, ” I was done.” I told him I didn’t know he was done. Having sex … Continue reading

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