Category Archives: D-day

Shattered

I read a blog post recently that was deep. Her style of writing is unique and so heartfelt you can feel it in your chest. She wrote something a few weeks ago that just left me stunned for several minutes. … Continue reading

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Quiet.

I feel like I’ve stepped back in my life. That probably doesn’t make sense… how do I describe it… more like I’ve stepped backwards, or to the side and am just observing. I got some satisfying revenge on the OW … Continue reading

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Lies.

I was outside feeding my feral cat, Oscar, this morning. He’s a cutie for sure. I’ve been working on him daily since he showed up in April. He remains as feral as he can be though. He has finally allowed … Continue reading

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Apology – my rant

I think I figured out how to repost… I’ve never done it ūüė¨ But Tearing at the Fabric wrote a post that got me thinking as she always does ūüíě I’ve thought about this a lot. I wouldn’t mind an … Continue reading

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Feels like the wind got knocked out of me.

I was in fourth grade. We had just moved from Florida to Pasadena, Md. I had just started a new school. Again. I was out with some neighbor kids and we were all climbing a tree. I made it to … Continue reading

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Detaching.

It was his 50th birthday Monday. I let my walls down a little and attempted to make it a nice day for him. Honestly? More for the kids. They enjoyed celebrating their Dad and all had a nice day. Inside, … Continue reading

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I scrolled waaay back…

I’ve been here and on twitter for 4 years now. I wrote my first entry and created my twitter account on the same day. I was nervous hitting “publish” and I was nervous going on twitter anonymously. I have been … Continue reading

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A week

About a week has passed since I lost my shit over the random thoughts of them. After I wrote the entry, I shot off a text to him. After a while, hours actually, he answered yes. Yes, they communicated daily. … Continue reading

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Thoughts out of nowhere.

I’m ranting and raving here. Kind of going off the rails in my head. Oh, not really kinda. My train is completely off the rails. Hang on. I’m laying in bed last night, watching some dumb show about singers pairing … Continue reading

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What’s up?

A couple of weeks ago, I had a panic moment. Someone followed this blog that had the same name as my daughter. Or, very close. Turns out, it was not her. In my panic, I locked everything down and made … Continue reading

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