Category Archives: healing after the affar

The farm house.

It was September 2013 when I saw it for the first time. The house cannot be seen from the road, so as we pull into the driveway, I’m anxiously waiting for the house to come into view. We pass a … Continue reading

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It’s good medicine.

Self reflection. I wrote a while back that I often head to Gettysburg -my happy place- and just hang out. I have more than one happy place. As the weather turned colder I found myself not going to Gettysburg as … Continue reading

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The STD test

Often a group I’m in or a conversation with my twitter fam definitely get me thinking. Funny that today, it came up in both my group and on Twitter. The STD test after finding out the cheating lying liar possibly … Continue reading

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Did he? Didnt he? Who cares now?

I’m obsessing over something ridiculous. Welcome to my insanity. Sometimes it’s nice here. There’s usually some nature, quiet walks, deep thinking, cake, and wonderful thoughts of punching someone in the throat. I have had a rule, so to speak, for … Continue reading

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Trickle Truth HELL

Trickle truth sucks. Just tell the truth in the beginning. Continue reading

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I’m in trigger hell

I sign on to Facebook last night and I have a notification.  When I checked it, I could feel my chest tightening…. Birthday party for a friend.  Well, his friend.  I thought we were friends, but the affair did a … Continue reading

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The clocks…

I’m just sitting here tonight.  House is empty, silent. There’s a clock sitting above my TV.  It has caught my eye tonight, as it has many nights.  I love antiques.  I spend a lot of time antiquing.  There is an … Continue reading

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Hope having an affair with a married man was worth inviting a crazy wife into your life

*Warning*  There’s A LOT of F bombs in this entry.  I also know that at my age, my interactions with her are immature, they come from anger and pain, I’m lashing out.  I know there are many that don’t believe … Continue reading

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