Category Archives: the other woman

Comparison to the other woman

I wonder… Bear with me here as I work this out. I watched a video from Affair Recovery this morning.   This one definitely got me thinking a little. I can honestly say I don’t think I’ve ever felt jealous … Continue reading

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HW, OW, THOT…

Pointless post this morning. Big debate going on in a group I’m in this morning on the acronyms. It is being said that we, the BS (betrayed spouse) need to stop calling the OW, OW. We need to call her … Continue reading

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Does the OW have power?

twitter conversations always get me thinking.. What is she to me? Who is she to me? Does being angry with her give her power over me? I’m not even sure what that means. I have struggled with my anger with … Continue reading

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The “Slut” car conversation

I guess I had too much to say, or think about, to reply on Dolly’s post.  Or even a reform cad’s. Dolly: Creative Writing ARC: 138 – Slut They both then had an interesting conversation about it on twitter.  I chimed in … Continue reading

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Did he? Didnt he? Who cares now?

I’m obsessing over something ridiculous. Welcome to my insanity. Sometimes it’s nice here. There’s usually some nature, quiet walks, deep thinking, cake, and wonderful thoughts of punching someone in the throat. I have had a rule, so to speak, for … Continue reading

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He wants forgiveness

He wants forgiveness for the affair. But what does that mean?
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The beginning. Who did you tell?

When I found out dumpster girl existed, I told a lot of people. I’m not sure why. Not to shame him. Not for sympathy. For no reason I think other than, I was fucked up and explaining why to people … Continue reading

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Conversation overheard

Gym. You pick a locker, shove your crap in, put a lock on it, go about your workout. The classes I took, 2 hours worth of high intensity. The last was combat. Combat leaves me drenched, exhausted and smiling. I … Continue reading

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2:30am musings of the other woman.

Toni. Aka: TrashWhore. (My name for her. She’s garbage. They met up next to some dumpsters at Taco Bell with my son in the car, and there’s a lovely picture of her floating around with her in a dumpster..trashwhore) She … Continue reading

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What was he doing those days after DDay?

I’m writing a post about how their affair ended.   In doing so, and as I look back on those days right after I found out the truth, some of the things he did have me shaking my head a … Continue reading

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