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The “Slut” car conversation

I guess I had too much to say, or think about, to reply on Dolly’s post.  Or even a reform cad’s. Dolly: Creative Writing ARC: 138 – Slut They both then had an interesting conversation about it on twitter.  I chimed in … Continue reading

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Did he? Didnt he? Who cares now?

I’m obsessing over something ridiculous. Welcome to my insanity. Sometimes it’s nice here. There’s usually some nature, quiet walks, deep thinking, cake, and wonderful thoughts of punching someone in the throat. I have had a rule, so to speak, for … Continue reading

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Trickle Truth HELL

Trickle truth sucks. Just tell the truth in the beginning. Continue reading

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He wants forgiveness

He wants forgiveness for the affair. But what does that mean?
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Lovers Lane.

I live right on the MD/PA line. I am closer to shop in PA than Maryland, so I’m there a lot. There is this one road, and on this road is 11 restaurants, a huge movie theater, Walmart, Target, Home … Continue reading

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BBQ, ghosts, flowers and muscle cars.

I love this time of year. The winter was long, it’s nice to feel the sun and warm days and the end of a long hibernation. Do you believe in ghosts? I live in a 170+ year old farm house. … Continue reading

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Cognitive Dissonance

Interesting. So, I  began this blog and my twitter (Me on Twitter) on the same day.  This June will be two years. God, what a journey!  I’m still on it.  But I can’t say enough about the ‘friends’ I have … Continue reading

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Nope to Valentines Day.

Yeah, it’s a no from me. I’m not ready.  I’m alright with that.  I’m comfortable. VDay History: 1990-2015:  It was great.  We always gave each other something cute, a nice card, a nice evening. 2016: I wake up, he’s gone.  … Continue reading

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Just me.

I have time off work. I feel pressured to get stuff done, but my body and mind just say “Stop.  It’s OK. Relax.” I’m actually starting to sleep.  Nine days now that I have slept well.  That’s something new.  I … Continue reading

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2:30am musings of the other woman.

Toni. Aka: TrashWhore. (My name for her. She’s garbage. They met up next to some dumpsters at Taco Bell with my son in the car, and there’s a lovely picture of her floating around with her in a dumpster..trashwhore) She … Continue reading

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