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BBQ, ghosts, flowers and muscle cars.

I love this time of year. The winter was long, it’s nice to feel the sun and warm days and the end of a long hibernation. Do you believe in ghosts? I live in a 170+ year old farm house. … Continue reading

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We have a disclosure talk that ends with screaming and things being thrown. Pt. 1

So it took me two months, but I finally sat down and told him I needed to talk. He groaned. I talked about my needing to know their start and their end with my counselor. All three I have tried … Continue reading

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I just can’t right now.

He’s sitting next to me playing his acoustic guitar. I used to feel comforted by it. Now I know I’m not the only one who has sat next to him, listening to him quietly play and sing. I used to … Continue reading

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Music… 

Music…  it’s there when there is happiness, falling in love, just driving around, when you want to dance or work out and when there is pain.   When you try to put words to what you’re going through, but just … Continue reading

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