Monthly Archives: March 2018

The other side

I bitch about him a lot here. I’ve made him a monster as I work through all of this. I usually come here when I can’t see something clear, when he’s pissed me off, when the other woman has pissed … Continue reading

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Life.

Im just pondering life today. No reason really for this post, I’m just wading through this self discovery in the aftermath of infidelity. This post will reference sexual abuse. I want to forewarn, as I never want to be the … Continue reading

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I didn’t go. 😊

Follow up: I didn’t go. 😊 I can’t thank you all enough for the replies. ❤️ So the evening rolled around and he says to me, “Hey. Want to jump in the car and go for a drive for some … Continue reading

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I’m in trigger hell

I sign on to Facebook last night and I have a notification.  When I checked it, I could feel my chest tightening…. Birthday party for a friend.  Well, his friend.  I thought we were friends, but the affair did a … Continue reading

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